About

I’ve been a counselor for 40 years and a writer concurrently for 36 of those years. I live in Northern California. My specialties in therapy include EMDR, IFS, cognitive re-processing, and Reality therapy.

I love to write. I have written four books, 150 published articles and over a dozen journal/professionally reviewed studies. My focus for this blog is on trauma therapy,  working with victims of sexual assault, and my experience of deconstructing and leaving Christianity.

I also explore all aspects of Sex Positivity and I reject any attempt by religion to see sexuality as a sin.